Frequently Asked Questions…
Where would we meet to plan everything?
In person, online, or on the phone.
In person: Usually we would meet at your home. Sometimes people prefer to meet in a cafe, or at the funeral home.
Online: We can do ZOOM, Facetime, or any of the usual video platforms.
Phone: I can set up a conference call for anyone who wants to be part of the planning on the phone.
How long will it take?
I usually allow 2 hours for the appointment, so we can take it slow and get to know one another, but it doesn’t always take that long. The breakdown looks something like this…
1 hour for planning the service
1 hour for writing the eulogy.
So, if you are writing the eulogy yourself, that saves some time.
If you are in a rush, we can get everything done more quickly (less than an hour).
What do we need to get ready before you arrive?
I can help you think through all the decisions, so even if you are starting from scratch, that’s ok.
If you want to do a little bit of preparation, you could start thinking about…
Music (usually 3 songs — for entry, exit, photos)
Stories (think of different people who could write stories for me to read)
Speakers (does anyone want to speak themselves?)
Life story (start thinking about what important things need to be shared)
I will usually send you an email with a guide to help you get started.
How and when do we pay you?
You don’t. Usually my fee is included in the quote from the funeral company (unless you made a special arrangement with them).
What do we need to start writing the life story?
I can send you a Eulogy Builder, which will help you with that.
